Love and marriage is something that I just as every other little girl thought of, wanted and dreamed of since the start of our time
I can't tell you how many times I've drafted out my wedding, from bridesmaids to colors and themes of nights but if you know me I am so detail oriented that I can't help but dream of specifics
As time went on my timeline of things have for sure changed but my standards have not
Being of a broken home I want nothing but success because I know that girls with similar childhoods like mine deserve a chance at a beautiful love and a successful marriage
We can dream of the good, the great and the beautiful because we know our worth and that we deserve a chance at happiness
It's so easy to look onto the next girl and her successful relationship and hate a little but is that the right thing to do? No you need to measure your happiness and growth on your own self not on that of others
When it's your time to love and get married it will happen because God knows what you deserve and will give it to you at the perfect timing
The one thing that sucks if the road to getting that love and marriage because along the way you are bound to find toads along the way who say that they are the one but they only play games and dip out when they feel that the time is right but it only makes the real deal that much better in the end
People always question if your ready and if you have it together to want love and marriage and I with an open heart can say yes because I’m ready to love and be loved, I’ve seen relationships that work and those that haven’t and I know that when it is my time I will stick it out forever because my marriage i my one and only shot
Nothing in life comes easy and if I have to fight and work hard to be happy then that is exactly what I will do, people give in and up too easily these days and wonder why things don’t work out for them
All I know is, I am both capable and worthy of love and it will find me, I just need to grab a hold of my heart and stop falling for the wrong one
Pay attention to who has access to you, if it's the wrong people change your surroundings, regroup and make the change needed because the wrong people will have you thinking that this is all that you deserve and that you are not worthy, but let me let you know…..we are all worthy, yours is just taking a little bit longer!
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